The following are some simple and straightforward pointers which encourage people to feel comfortable with people who are blind or low vision:
- I’m an ordinary person who just happens to be blind or have low vision.
- If you think I might need help, just ask me.
- You don’t need to raise your voice; I can hear you just fine.
- Talk to me directly, not through someone else. Don’t ask my friend, ‘does she want cream with her coffee?’
- I may use a long white cane or a guide dog to walk independently. Or, I may ask to take your arm. Let me decide. Please do not just grab my arm.
- I would like to know who is in the room with me. Please speak to me when you enter and introduce me to the others (including children).
- A partially opened door to a cabinet, car, room, or appliance can be a hazard to me. Please close doors or let me know if they are partially opened.
- I have no trouble with ordinary table skills. I will ask if I need assistance. Please let me know verbally if you are passing an item to me.
- No need to avoid words like “see.” I use them, too. I’m always glad to “see” you and I enjoy “watching” television.
- I don’t want pity. Please don’t talk about the “wonderful compensations” of blindness. My senses didn’t improve, I’ve learned to rely on them differently.
- If I am your guest, please show me around. I’d like to know the location of different areas and rooms, including the bathroom.
- I will discuss blindness with you and am happy to answer questions if you’re curious, but it’s an old story to me. I have as many other interests as you do.
- It’s okay to use the word blind because it is okay to be blind!
